There are bits of family which defy description. I do not mean that metaphorically. They know you are trying and they will resist.
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Custody

/kŭsˈtə-dē/ cus·to·dy

The baseball fan who shaves a razor ragged. He is subject to your addictions, innovative and banal. There is nothing in the razor cord but power. There is nothing in the fridge but wine.