There are bits of family which defy description. I do not mean that metaphorically. They know you are trying and they will resist.

Survival

/sər-vīˈvəl/ sur·viv·al

He held her dress responsible. Holding her, he dressed responsibly. Responsibly, he held her dress. She undressed in response to his hold on her. He undressed, withholding. She dressed and held on.